Life has its ups and downs, and I experienced my fair share of challenges. Growing up as the youngest of seven boys, I navigated the dynamics of a bustling household. While I didn’t fully grasp its significance at the time, having both parents present was a blessing. However, my journey took unexpected turns, with early fatherhood at 19, a divorce at 23, and a subsequent marriage at 26 shaping my path. For the most part, life was uneventful until a series of losses struck starting when I was 39, starting with the passing of my beloved mother from cancer and the life-altering aneurysm suffered by my close brother more than a year later. My father passed away two years after that. In August ‘21, my wife and I caught Covid. We both went to the hospital, we both went into the ICU, I came home, she didn’t. I lost my wife to Covid. Amidst these trials, I faced personal struggles, leading to an unhealthy spiral of emotional coping mechanisms and mounting credit card debt. However, a moment of realization propelled me toward change, setting me on a transformative path of healing and personal development.
Life dealt me heavy blows, with the loss of my mother and the declining health of my brother, the loss of my father and wife, took a toll on my emotional well-being. I sought solace in destructive habits, succumbing to excessive drinking, chain-smoking cigars, and even smoking weed. Grief overwhelmed me, and I resorted to emotional shopping, burying myself in credit card debt. As if the emotional weight wasn’t enough, a devastating blow came when doctors informed me that my job was no longer sustainable slanging boxes out of the big brown truck, leaving me uncertain about my future.
Amidst the darkness, a lifeline presented itself in the form of a suggestion from one of my nieces—counting macros. Though initially hesitant, I embraced this approach to nutrition and invested in a food scale, setting myself on a path toward better health. Additionally, a friend at work who is also a personal trainer offered support by allowing me to join his online training program, kickstarting my physical transformation. With dedication and perseverance, I gradually shed pounds, reaching a pivotal point where I began to believe in my ability to change.
July marked a significant turning point in my journey when I encountered a friend who introduced me to the transformative power of the ketogenic diet, meditation, the exploration of chakras and the Sacred Secretion. This encounter became a catalyst for profound change in my life. She is the main reason you are reading this and this blog is in part, a dedication to her. I found strength within myself to quit smoking, abandon harmful drinking habits, and overcome a lifelong battle with pornography addiction. The practices of meditation, prayer, and self-reflection guided me toward personal growth and a newfound appreciation for self-love. A love I have never really experienced prior.
My journey toward personal transformation is far from over. Through the power of meditation, dedication to a healthier lifestyle, and a newfound spiritual awakening, I’ve overcome significant hurdles and embraced a renewed sense of purpose. While I continue to face challenges and acknowledge areas that require improvement, I am driven to share my story and inspire others to embark on their extraordinary comebacks. I have learned the importance of self-love, the value of healthy habits, and the transformative nature of connecting with others who support our growth. By serving humanity and motivating others to find their own path to success, I believe we can collectively embrace personal growth and lead more fulfilling lives. Together, let us seize the opportunity to make our comeback stories extraordinary. Let us strive for greatness and inspire one another to reach our full potential. Are you ready? Let’s go get it!!